Sunday, February 28, 2010
FREEDOM!
Freedom is being able to do something freely. It is also, the right to act according to ones will without being held up by the power of others. Freedom can also be defined as the capacity to determine your own choices. I can give many definitions about freedom, and all of them can be the right definition; it’s just how you put it.
There are four freedoms; freedom of speech, religion, fear, and freedom of want. Freedom has been rallying call for reformers and revolutionaries throughout human history. Ask anyone, and they will tell you that they want to be free. When asked to define what freedom means, people usually have a difficult time coming up with a concrete definition. The common answer of “freedom means doing whatever I want, whenever I want,” generates many conflicting questions. In my own opinion, freedom is very important, because it gives me the rights and privileges that make my life so much better. I am free to speak my mind and do many other things as I please.
When we think about freedom, no one tells you how many kids you can have, or if your child is a boy he must die, if a girl she can live. No one puts walls up to keep us contained within any boundaries. We also have a chance to worship the God of our choice in the way we choose. We are free to travel or stay at home. We are also free to raise our children in the way we want them to be brought up. These facts are not bad at all. After all, we are free to basically do whatever we want. We are free to kill someone, but then, we’re not. It is a consequence that you have to pay; jail time or death sentence. This brings me back to the 20th century, when Emmett Till was murdered for talking to a white woman. Although he spoke to the white woman in a different way, he did not deserve to be lynched. Especially, being that he was only a fourteen year old boy; black or white. The white men responsible for his death were freed. ‘You be the judge of that.’
In the 20th century, freedom was big to the black community, although they didn’t have much of it; at all. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was one of the biggest African American leaders, in history, to help build blacks freedom. Also, he helped segregation become “desegregation.” I can go on and on about how he helped black people and the society, but that’s not the point of this matter. Dr. King gave many of speeches, and they all had something to do with freedom. “I want to be the white man’s brother, not his brother-in-law,” “…let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom…by drinking from the cup of bitterness or hatred,” “Let freedom ring, and when this happens...when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old negro spiritual, free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty, we are free at last.” In these quotes, Dr. King was crying out for help, and acknowledgement. ‘We are all equal, slavery days are over, so why aren’t we free?’
I think about a few people I know when it comes to freedom. Two of them are my grandmother and my uncle. My grandmother always spoke of her childhood days, and how terrible blacks were treated back then. Of course I listened, because I was curious to know what she thought in her own words. Not only what she thought, but how she felt. “Hell, I wanted to be free,” she said. How ironic is that? She felt what a lot of black kids were feeling at the time, and because of segregation, this was impossible. My uncle is currently serving time in jail, he has to serve sixteen years in prison; he’s already served about nine years so far. When he gets out, he will be “free,” but then again, he won’t. Let’s think about this. Although he is out of jail, he doesn’t have the freedom to do what he would usually do, any longer. A lot comes involved, like a parole officer, or maybe even wearing some type of detecting device. There’s no freedom in that.
Another fact I will like to mention, is when a black person throws the term “nigga” around, this is only showing other races that it is alright to use this term whenever they please. After all, we do have freedom of speech. I must admit, I do use this term daily, it’s a bad habit, but when you think about it, anyone and everyone uses the term throughout everyday life. From the rappers to the singers, radio hosts, maybe even politics; who knows. We all use this unsatisfying word. Obviously we can’t control other people’s actions. Can we make a law not to use this word? Sounds impossible, but it doesn’t hurt to try. “Wassup my nigga,” “Nigga, please,” “Where dat nigga at?” These are all phrases used by everyone. Whether you’re black, white, Hispanic, whatever your nationality is, you have the right to say this word, because the black people say it to you, so that gives you the right to say it whenever you want, right? Wrong! No one should use this term. When will it stop being used? We will probably never know, but I’m willing to find out.
Since this is a freedom essay, and I have the right to say what I want, and I have the right to express myself and my feelings. Let’s talk about “the negroes.” Are we free? Many of us believe we are, and there are those who don’t. ‘On paper we are free, but not in practice.’ Ignorance is still sticking to some of us. If I were to go to a neighborhood with the society being all white people, there’s a 99 percent chance that they are going to look at me different, and stare so hard to the point where I’m no longer comfortable. Why is this? ‘They choose not to learn ignorance.’ Some of you will read or listen to this essay, and think I am bitter and don’t care, but I’m not. I’m just speaking the truth and its right, because the truth outlasts a lie.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
N.I.G.G.E.R
Did you know the word "nigger" came from England back in 1786? Well, if you didn't, now you know. The word was then spelled, "n-e-g-e-r;" neger. The first human called a "nigger" was a white man. Crazy right? I know, but as black inferiority was at one time a near universal assumption in English-speaking lands, the word in some cases could be used without deliberate insult. Nowadays, the word is just thrown all over the place, and NOT in a good way. Honestly, I didn't know this word can be used in a good way, or even was used in a good way. What the hell!? [Smh]* Society is fucked up.
When our black people use this term around different nationalities, that gives them the right to say it too. No? Well, mind as well. I mean, if you called me a "nigga" or a "nigger" and I was white, I would've called you it back. "What's good mah nigga.?" C'MON SON!! I'm not your nigga. FAR from it. Nigger is used as a disparaging term for a Black person. "You can only be destroyed by believing that you really are what the white world calls a nigger" (James Baldwin) Mmm. Do that got you thinking yet? Got me thinking.. It is also used as a disparaging term for a member of any dark-skinned people. Shit, it's used as a disparaging term for a member of any socially, economically, or politically deprived group of people. Is there even a real law that say's you can't use this word? NOPE! They don't care about it. Kanye said it best, "George Bush doesn't care about black people." Too bad he's not in office anymore [lmao]* C'mon Obama, hook us up.!
Well, I'm off this! Maybe all of society would start thinking. Especially, us "black folk."
Post created by: ME; Whitney "Big Sexy" Harrison
Kat Von D: My Idol
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Trey Songz: The Man Behind The Music
Born Tremaine Aldon Neverson, Trey was raised as a military brat, with his family eventually settling in Petersburg, Virginia. Ironically, as a teen he wasn't particularly interested in singing. Only after continuous encouragement from his mother, and drawing on his grandmother's example as a devoted church choir member, Trey entered a local talent show at 14 years old. He won that competition and several more, eventually amassing 19 trophies. At 15, Trey crossed paths with producer Troy Taylor, who's worked with everyone from Boyz II Men to Lionel Richie, and Taylor immediately recognized Trey's talent.
After high school, at Taylor's invitation Trey moved to New Jersey, where he developed his vocal, writing, and production skills. Trey soon found himself driving from the Garden State across the river to New York City. As he learned to record songs, Trey completed a proverbial musical boot camp, absorbing music by artists like Prince, Marvin Gaye, and Steely Dan during his commute between the two states. To earn his keep, the Virginian worked as Taylor's vocal production assistant and transformed that experience into his debut album, "I GOTTA MAKE IT," after signing with Atlantic Records in 2003.
On the business end, Trey began his production company, Songbook, in 2004 with Taylor. The company houses several producers but Trey doesn't want to overstep his boundaries or stunt anyone else's creative growth. "We've been honing Songbook," says Trey carefully. "We make sure that we don't keep people from what they have to do. I don't want to get the talent if I don't have a place for it. A lot of people sign artists that they'll never release, just to have them. I'd rather let you find your own way."
Among Trey's numerous activities, he ? along with fellow Atlantic artist Flo Rida ? wrote and produced a street-smart rendition of "Jingle Bells" especially for clothing giant GAP, which proved to be a sensation during the 2008 Christmas season.
In August 2008, Trey added the philanthropic organization Songz For Peace to his repertoire, launching the charity with community activist Noonie Ward in Chicago's crime-ridden Southside before bringing his message to his native Petersburg. The youth-centered organization, which attracted 500 kids at its opening event, travels to different cities speaking to teens about the dangers of violence and life's positive opportunities. Songz for Peace is scheduled to visit several more cities across America this year, including Washington D.C., Atlanta, and Baltimore. "The violence within the youth is rising at an alarming rate," says Trey earnestly. "I get to speak on that, and children listen to me."
Deftly balancing and separating his roles as artist, businessman, and philanthropist, Trey has delivered his best work to date with "READY." "I've always been the underdog of my class," says Trey. "But this time nothing can stop me from achieving all that I want."
-P.S. I Love This Man! You Can Check Out His Website To The Right, On My Sidebar.
Monday, February 22, 2010
Sex
You lay me down, Pull off my shirt,
Unhook my bra, I'm your perfect dessert.
Licked my nipples, damn, that makes them hard,
And then carefully I took charge.
I climb on top and kiss your chest,
You lay there feeling my naked breast.
I kiss you slowly, all the way down,
I know you want me and you want me right now.!
I unbutton your pants and undo your zipper,
I can feel you getting bigger and bigger.
You can feel my hand as I put you in my mouth.
It makes you moan when it touches my throat.
I letchu watch and enjoy the show,
And then it's your turn to take control.
I know I'm wet and need you inside me,
You pull down my tight jeans and see through panties.
Putting your hands on the inside of my thigh,
You enter me slowly, taking your time.
Then you squeeze my waist and get in so deep.
Faster and faster, I can't help but scream.
You ask if I like it, I tell you I love it.
I say, "you can have it however you want it."
Flipping me, turning me, completely taking control of me;
You go even faster, harder and stronger;
69, 68, doggy style, arch, slow dance, rodeo, boy you're gettin wild..
'Til you absolutely can't last any longer.
You finally explode deep inside my body.
I can feel your heart beating as you lay on top of me.
Breathing heavily as you kiss my lips,
I lay there naked in perfect bliss.....
I like it, i love it, I want it all the time.
I crave it, I needs it, It's always on my mind.
I want it all the time. It's always on my mind.
Its just a part of me..
Sex I Love!
I love it anywhere. The bed the floor or chair
It's just a part of me..
Sex I Love!
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Not Alone In This Pathetic World
See tiny fingers and tiny toes,
Bright baby eyes, cute baby nose;
Hear baby gurgles and baby sighs,
As Mom sings lullabies.
Life is changed, but that's okay;
It's fun to spend glad hours each day,
Taking time for all the good
That comes along with parenthood. -Big Sexy
I dedicate this poem to Briante Lorin Holmes and her gorgeous son Prince.
Young, Black Men Striving For Success
Not a lot of young, black men strive for the best; strive for success. Is it because they have nothing to live for? Is it because they never had a father figure when they were in youth age? Is it because the streets is all they know? In that little crowd of young, black men that are always focused on the negative things in life, is one black male that is looking for that right path to success. And that path has to be your own path. Amongst several different black fellas I interviewed. There were two that really took my attention...
Rajah Taylor, as many "in the hood" may know him as Flea, said, "I want the thing called success, because it's the only way out of this crazy world." He only counts on himself to get through the college life. "If you can't motivate yourself, no one else can." -Flea Rajah is a 19 year old college student, attending Passaic County Community College (PCCC), where he is majoring in Business. "I want it all, that's why I strive for it." -Flea He Considers himself to be "street smart and academically smart." Even though he does his share of dirt, Mr. Taylor knows what's important and what has to be done at the end of the day. Just keep taking life a step at a time.
"Past situations has made me pre-successful," says Joseph Valtrez Moore, Jr. The picture above is him. Joe is a college student, attending Delaware State University (DSU). The reason he says "pre," because he'd be living where and however he wants. Growing up in the rough streets of Paterson , New Jersey only made him stronger. I would say so, because of many people that doubted this "young boy." He has come to a halt in his success so far, only because he's looking forward to finishing up college. While in college, he is still striving for becoming the best; modeling, acting, he has a talk show coming soon (be on the lookout for that one), and he is still trying to get a internship for this summer. Now from what information I got on him I would say that's pretty successful. His career and life have yet to began, though; it's just getting started. "Success comes after you have been through the drought, and can walk on the dry land after the drought is over, while all the people who told you that you wasn't strong enough to make it through the drought, because they were safe in a boat, while you struggled during the drought." Sounds like SUCCESS!
We all face different obstacles in life. Whether they're difficult or not. Only the strongest survive. When I say "strongest," I'm talking about mentally. So, the people selling that dope on the streets..they're the ones struggling, no matter how much money they're getting. Even celebrities are struggling. "Being famous is easy, living life is hard." -Big Sexy
Wanna Be Minaj's
So wassup with all these wanna be Minaj's, who think they're Barbies and shit.? Are you serious? C'MON SON!! You kiss your mother with that mouth, you use to say things that you basically can't handle.? Be forreal! Then you wonder why a dude calls you a "bitch!" No Bueno mama, no bueno. Stop tryna be down. A barbie is fake, unreal, PLASTIC! Are you any of those? So for all you females that call themselves "Barbies" and trying to be like famous, female rapper Nicki Minaj...Please stop! You're beautiful without the make-up, lingerie, high heels, and 'unbeweavableness' lol I can please a man without all of that. Just be yourself, and if you're just naturally, born ugly, well...then, God bless you! haha -Big Sexy
Only Certain Dudes Can Pull Off Madd Tats
It seems like everyone has to have tattoos. Males and females.! I know I have two; plan on getting more. This is besides the point I am trying to make though. I can't seem to figure out why every dude I know is trying to be on they Lil Wayne and Tyga shit. Only some of ya can pull it off. Especially, light skinned and caramel boys. OH MY LORD! God bless them. I'm just saying fellas. DON'T try to fit in with the rest of the boys. It ain't for everybody!! -Big Sexy
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